Tuesday, October 4, 2016

Proper Selection & Serving Of Seafood Very Important; Study Finds Body Temperature Affects Immune System's Response To The Common Cold; Study Finds Palliative, Hospice Care Is Lacking Among Dying Cancer Patients




Proper Selection & Serving Of Seafood Very Important


Here is some great information taken from Seafood News Today, dated Tuesday, October 4, 2016 so it's very current and informational. Additional information on this and other related topics can be found at seafood.einnews.com.


The U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA) reminds you to follow these basic safety tips for buying, storing, and preparing fish and shellfish.
Buy Right: Fresh Seafood
When buying fresh fish or shellfish, be sure that it is refrigerated or displayed on a thick bed of fresh ice that is not melting. Preferably, it should be displayed in a case or under some type of cover. Check for these signs of freshness:
Fish:
  • Fish should smell fresh and mild, not fishy, sour, or ammonia-like.
  • A fish's eyes should be clear and bulge a little.
  • Whole fish and fillets should have firm, shiny flesh and bright red gills free from slime.
  • The flesh should spring back when pressed.
  • Fish fillets should display no discoloration nor darkening or drying around the edges.
Shellfish:
  • Look for tags and labels on live shellfish (in the shell) and on containers or packages of shucked shellfish that include a certification number for the processor. This means that the shellfish were harvested and processed in accordance with FDA national shellfish safety controls.
  • Throw away any clams, oysters, and mussels with cracked or broken shells.
  • Live clams, oysters, and mussels will close up when the shell is tapped. If they don't close, do not select them.
  • Live crabs and lobsters should show some leg movement. They spoil rapidly after death, so only live crabs and lobsters should be selected and prepared.
Buy Right: Frozen Seafood
Frozen seafood can spoil if it thaws during transport and is left at warm temperatures for too long. Follow these tips when selecting frozen seafood:
  • Don't buy frozen seafood if the package is open, torn, or crushed on the edges.
  • Avoid packages that are positioned above the "frost line" or top of the freezer case.
  • Avoid packages with signs of frost or ice crystals, which may mean the fish has been stored for a long time or was thawed and refrozen.
Store Properly
Put seafood on ice, in the refrigerator (if it will be used within two days), or in the freezer soon after buying it. If freezing, wrap it tightly in moisture-proof freezer paper or foil to protect it from air leaks.
Prepare Safely
Most seafood should be cooked to an internal temperature of 145 degrees F and checked in more than one spot to ensure doneness. If you don't have a food thermometer, there are other ways to determine whether seafood is done.
  • Fish: Flesh should be opaque and separate easily with a fork
  • Shrimp and Lobster: Flesh becomes pearly and opaque
  • Scallops: Flesh turns milky white or opaque and firm
  • Clams, Mussels, and Oysters: Shells open during cooking (throw out any that don't open)
Consumers: 1-888-SAFEFOOD (toll free)

SOURCE U.S. Food and Drug Administration


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Study Finds Body Temperature Affects
Immune System's Repsonse To The Common Cold



There is a relatively new Yale study revealing how body temperature does indeed affect the immune system’s response to the common cold virus. The research, published by the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, may provide additional strategies for developing therapies for colds.

In an earlier study, a team of Yale researchers led by Professor of Immunobiology Akiko Iwasaki, discovered that the cold virus replicated more readily when the temperature in the nose dipped below core body temperature (37 degrees C). The researchers determined that at a slightly cooler temperature (33 degrees C), key immune system proteins – interferons – were impaired, allowing the cold virus to reproduce and spread in mouse airway cells.

The research team focused on human airway cells in the current study. These cells appear to make little interferons in response to the cold virus, said Iwasaki, who is also an investigator at the Howard Hughes Medical Institute. While examining infected cells incubated at 37 or 33 degrees C, they observed that even in the absence of interferon, cells still controlled the virus, raising the possibility of additional cold-fighting mechanisms.

Further investigation, including mathematical modeling, revealed two additional mechanisms: At the higher core body temperature, infected cells die more rapidly, preventing viral replication. Second, an enzyme that attacks and degrades viral genes, RNAseL, is enhanced at the higher temperature. Each pathway independently contributes to the immune system’s defense against the cold virus.

“In this study, we found that there are two additional mechanisms at play,” in addition to interferon, Iwasaki said. “All are more optimal at 37 degrees.”

The findings underscore the impact of temperature on the immune system’s defenses. They also offer further approaches for therapeutically tackling the cold virus, which is a key trigger of asthma. “There are three ways to target this virus now,” said Iwasaki.

Other Yale authors are Ellen F. Foxman, James A. Storer, Kiran Vanaja, and Andre Levchenko.

The study was supported by the Howard Hughes Medical Institute, the National Institutes of Health, and the American Asthma Foundation.


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Study Finds Palliative, Hospice Care Is Lacking
Among Dying Cancer Patients







From HealAlerts.com :

 Medical societies, including the American Society of Clinical Oncology, recommend that patients with advanced cancer receive palliative care soon after diagnosis and receive hospice care for at least the last three days of their life. Yet major gaps persist between these recommendations and real-life practice, a new study shows.
Risha Gidwani, DrPH, a health economist at Veterans Affairs Palo Alto Health Economics Resource Center and a consulting assistant professor of medicine at the Stanford University School of Medicine, and her colleagues examined care received by all veterans over the age of 65 with cancer who died in 2012, a total of 11,896 individuals.
The researchers found that 71 percent of veterans received hospice care, but only 52 percent received palliative care. They also found that exposure to hospice care differed significantly between patients treated by the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs and those enrolled in Medicare. In addition, many patients who received palliative care received it late in their disease’s progression rather than immediately following diagnosis, as recommended by ASCO.
Gidwani is the lead author of the study, which was published online May 26 in the Journal of Palliative Medicine. The senior author is Vincent Mor, PhD, a professor of health services, policy and practice at Brown University.
Hospice and palliative care are often confused, but they are two distinct services, Gidwani explained. Palliative care is intended to alleviate symptoms and improve quality of life, and is appropriate for all patients with serious illness, not just those who are at the end of life. Conversely, hospice care is end-of-life care, which can also provide social support for family members. Physicians can recommend hospice care only if they believe the patient has fewer than 180 days to live.
“The main lesson learned is we need to improve exposure to palliative care, both in terms of how many patients receive it and when they receive it,” Gidwani said. The team’s analysis of palliative care focused on care provided by the VA because palliative care is not coded consistently in Medicare. However, the researchers could examine hospice care in both environments. When they compared the timing and provision of hospice care between patients treated by the VA and those who received care paid for by Medicare, they discovered differences that could not be explained by cancer types. For example, patients receiving VA care were less likely to receive hospice care for the minimum recommended three days compared with those in Medicare or in other contracted care paid for by VA. VA patients first received hospice care a median of 14 days before death, compared with patients in VA-contracted care who entered hospice a median of 28 days before death.
“Ideally, there shouldn’t be any difference in timing of this care,” Gidwani said. “Patients should receive a service based on their clinical need, not due to health-care system factors.”
Interestingly, Medicare and the VA have different policies on the use of hospice care; VA cancer patients can continue receiving curative treatment while in hospice care, but Medicare patients must stop any chemotherapy or radiation before beginning hospice. However, nearly 70 percent of VA patients stopped curative treatment before entering hospice, even though they didn’t need to, Gidwani said. She and colleagues are planning future research to understand why.
The team also found differences in the use of hospice and palliative care between cancer types and ages. Patients with brain cancer were more likely to receive palliative care than those with kidney cancer, for example. In addition, patients older than 85 were less likely to receive palliative care than patients between the ages of 65 and 69. But patients older than 80 were more likely to receive hospice care than younger patients. Those with brain cancer, melanoma or pancreatic cancer were more likely to receive hospice than patients with prostate or lung cancer.
“Our work indicates palliative care needs to be better integrated into standard oncological care and that there is wide variation in receipt of hospice care. The VA is strongly supportive of palliative care and hospice, so it’s possible that other non-VA environments are performing even worse with respect to appropriate receipt of hospice and palliative care for cancer patients,” Gidwani said.
The research did uncover some positive findings, said VJ Periyakoil, MD, clinical associate professor of medicine at Stanford and director of the Stanford Palliative Care Education and Training Program, who was not involved with the study.
“The authors found that 85.6 percent of veterans had some exposure to hospice care or palliative care in the approximately 180 days before death. This is a much higher percentage than what we see in the community,” Periyakoil said. The higher number is likely due to the size of the VA and its commitment to improving the care for seriously ill veterans, she said.
However, the study highlights opportunities to improve access to care for patients older than 85, who are likely to have several medical ailments, Periyakoil said. In addition, the study’s findings on palliative care are worrisome.
“We know that early palliative care increases both longevity and quality of life. It is really puzzling as to why patients are referred so late despite compelling data to do otherwise,” she said. “Some doctors may say that they are unsure about the prognosis and that is why they refer patients late. However, that argument does not hold water as earlier referrals are better, and at worst we would be guilty of referring a patient a little earlier in the trajectory.”
Another Stanford-affiliated co-author of the study is Todd Wagner, PhD, a fellow at Stanford’s Center for Health Policy and Center for Primary Care and Outcomes Research. He is also the associate director of the VA Health Economics Resource Center and of the VA Center for Innovation to Implementation.
Researchers affiliated with the University of Pennsylvania, Providence VA Medical Center, Philadelphia VA Medical Center and Eastern Colorado VA Healthcare System and Brown University also co-authored the study.
The study was funded by the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs.

Friday, September 18, 2015

Melissa's Story Continues: The Virgin Bride; Celebrity Birthdays

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Melissa's Story Continues
The Virgin Bride
By Melissa Epling

Melissa Epling


Hi guys. First off, I want to say thank you. Thank you for supporting me & my story. I've already been told this is a great way to heal. And a productive one too. I just want to get pieces of my life & my experience out there. If I can help just one person who's suffering, I've done my job. 

In just a second, I'm going to get back into my story. But first, I want to say this...


What is about to come up is very hard for most people to hear. It may even come as a shock to most of you that know me because I have only let certain people in my life in on this. Please, I beg of you, hear me out if you can. If you can't stand to continue on this journey with me, I will understand. I simply ask that you keep an open mind & do not judge me or treat me any different as a result of knowing what I'm about to tell you. I say this because there have been numerous people in my life that have. With that in mind, let's continue. 


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After high school, I went to a local community college. I'm not sure why I never really applied to anywhere else. Fear maybe? Some days I think back & wonder how my life would've been different if I had left this place. 


So anyway, my first semester I started dating this guy that I had been in school with. He was a year younger than me & a good friend. Things progressed & I even went with him to his senior prom. That's when he proposed to me. I was so excited. Finally, someone loved me & truly wanted to be with me. Sure, the wedding wasn't going to be right away. But we had plans to be together. What girl wouldn't love that? 


I was so blind & so naive. Hell, he hadn't even told his parents. Why would he not be as excited as I was? Why wouldn't he want to shout it to the world? After all, he loved me. But, I let it go & just carried on. We would get there eventually. We were planning to wait a little bit anyways so what did it matter? I want to say just over a year later (I honestly don't remember exactly), I started to wonder about a friend of his. He sure was talking about her a lot. But, she was in an abusive relationship & needed his help. After all, he hated that kind of thing since he sister was trapped in one as well.

One night while I was working, he went to hang out with this friend. I wasn't pleased with the idea but there wasn't much I could say or do without looking like a crazy jealous lunatic. I called him when I got off from work like I always do & he was acting weird. I just knew something had happened. Found out he had kissed her & was now confused because he cared about/liked her but he loved me. Blah. Blah. Blah. Needless to say, the engagement was off. 

This was in August I believe. Throughout the rest of the year, he randomly contacted me & acted like he was sorry. Days later, he was gone again. Should've figured right? January comes & it's my 21st birthday. Hanging out at home with my sis, (now) brother in law & some close friends. The phone rings & it's him. He wanted to wish me happy birthday. Random. That turns into an argument that basically ruins my day because supposedly mom gave him attitude when she answered the phone. Who could blame her? 


A couple weeks later, I moved out into my first apartment. We had continued to maintain a bit of contact since my birthday. This eventually turned back into a relationship. I guess I figured that if he was willing to apologize & try again, I should practice forgiveness. Within a couple months, I had my ring back & we had finally decided on a date. July 22nd...that year. 2006. It would be a small wedding of mostly family. It was going to be outdoors at a lake. Not going to lie, it was beautiful! I was beautiful, of course. But something felt...off. Maybe it was the argument with my sister that morning. Maybe it was just nerves. Marriage is a major step in life, after all. 


As dad walked me down the short "aisle", I caught a glimpse of the memorial table I had sat up in honor of my Papa & I started crying. Most people (myself included) just assumed it was because I missed having him there. Deep down, I now realize & remember that I was terrified. I wanted to bolt right back out the door & down that dirt road! But I couldn't do that. Good girls wouldn't stand a man up at the alter. Nothing was going to go wrong. I was just scared. It was natural. 


We went to Gatlinburg, TN for our honeymoon. Rented a nice quiet little cabin in the woods. It was adorable. Loft upstairs with bed & heart shaped jacuzzi, hot tub on the porch. Even with all this, it was no normal honeymoon. You see, let's go back to that thing I told you that wasn't normal for my high school years. This is where that becomes important. At the age of 21, I was a unicorn. A rare, virgin bride. 

Why? Well, I was raised in a conservative, old fashioned, Christian family. So, safe to say, I was scared. No. I was terrified. I knew nothing about sex. I had heard it was painful. I wasn't sure I was ready for all that. Besides, relationships & marriage are about mutual love & respect. Right?


Well, I was right for the first couple months. Yes, that means what you think it does. I was something that probably no one else ever is...a virgin wife. He was patient & understanding to a point. Then he wasn't anymore. One morning...months later. Things were progressing but I was still scared. I tried to express my fear. Instead, I was told no when I tried to stop. My clothes were simply pulled aside. You can call it what you want, but I wasn't willing. You can blame me for frustrating him by not giving him what he wanted, but I was inexperienced. He knew that when he married me! He should have been more patient & understanding! I'm sorry, but the marriage "contract" is NOT implied consent! Especially since this was not the only time it happened this way. The next time...clothes were practically ripped off after I asked if they could be left on. What the hell was I supposed to do or think?? I'll tell you what I thought at the time. I figured it was just tough love. I needed it. I was a weak, scared little girl that needed a push to become the kind of woman & wife he needed.


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This is where I leave you today. I'm sorry but I simply can't go any further right now as I am shaking from having to relive this in my mind. Before I go, I want to say that the state of Virginia did not recognize marital rape as a crime until the 90s. The 90s guys! That's ridiculous! Just because you are in any type of relationship, it does not give that person the right to force you into anything!



To those of you who have known me & had no idea, I am sorry you have to hear about this like this. Please, don't take it personally. Until next time yall...

Melissa's Wedding Day

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Celebrity Birthdays
September 18th

     Happy birthday, past and present, to:

Samuel Johnson 1709
John Diefenbacker (Canada) 1779
John George Diefenbaker 1895
Greta Garbo 1905
Eddie "Rochester" Anderson 1905
Ray Geiger 1910
Syd Howe 1911
Rossano Brazzi 1916
Jack Warden 1920
Harvey Haddix 1925
 Phyllis Kirk 1926 
Teddie King 1929 
Jimmie Rodgers 1933 - Singer 
Robert Blake 1933 - Actor (TV: "Baretta") 
Fred Willard 1939 - Actor 
Frankie Avalon 1939 - Singer 
Ken Brett 1948 - Baseball pitcher 
Kerry Livgren 1949 - Musician, songwriter (Kansas) 
Anna Deavere Smith 1950 - Actress 
Dee Dee Ramone (Douglas Glenn Colvin) 1951 - Musician, songwriter (The Ramones) Holly Robinson Peete 1964 - Actress 
Ricky Bell 1967 - Singer (Bell Biv Devoe, New Edition)
Joanne Catherall (Human League) 1962
Blas Elias 1967 - Musician (Slaughter)
Aisha Tyler 1970 - Actress
Jada Pinkett Smith 1971 - Actress
Lance Armstrong 1971 - Cyclist
James Marsden 1973 - Actor
Jason Sudeikis 1975 - Comedian, actor
Alison Lohman 1979 - Actress
 Brandon Porter 1993 - Actor (TV: "Party of Five") 
Taylor Porter 1993 - Actor (TV: "Party of Five")  

 


Sunday, September 13, 2015

Melissa Epling: School Life Of The Invisible Me; Today Is National ? Day; Celebrity Birthdays

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 School Life Of The Invisible Me
 By Melissa Epling




Let's continue, shall we?

That was, by far, the biggest loss I had experienced up until then & even today, it would definitely rank in the top 2. I have no doubt in my mind that my grief from that has shaped me into the woman I am today. 

Moving along....

As best I can remember, my middle school years were mostly uneventful. And typical. First "boyfriend" & all that jazz. Who, still do this day, is a dear friend of mine (just wish we kept in touch more). The most exciting thing I remember was being asked to be in the high school marching band as an 8th grader. After all, I would be able to hang out with real high schoolers. That made me cool, right? I even started taking Latin which was only done at the high school so that meant I had to go there for a class. Unfortunately, I was no longer the perfect straight A student I once had been. (Which just reminded me: I forgot about how my fifth grade yr my design was chosen to be used for our D.A.R.E. shirts & I was also chosen to read my essay/speech at our graduation. Told yall I was cool & somewhat popular then. Sorry for the sidetrack) 
Unfortunately I can't remember timeline for all my middle & high school years very well so I apologize if things seem jumbled. Remember, some of this stuff was 15-20 yrs ago. 

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I can't remember exactly when it was, but I do remember at some point having a doctor tell mom I might be depressed & put me on Zoloft. I hated it! I felt ashamed. I felt like I had done something wrong. Basically I just didn't understand what I was going through or why. I was even set up with a counselor that I went in saw a couple times. I really hated that! After all, I wasn't crazy! I was sad...or just tired...or...hell, I don't know what I was but I wasn't going to relay all that to a total stranger who looked at me like some dumb misbehaving child. 

My senior year was tiresome. There were days where I played 3 different instruments for a total of probably 4 hrs or more. I played flute in symphonic band since it was what I had perfected. I started learning clarinet to play in concert band. I wasn't bad. I think I even shocked/upset a few people when I chaired better than they did & they had been playing all through their school years. Then, on days when we had marching band practice, I played piccolo. Let's just say my mouth hurt by the end of the days were I had both blocks of bank classes & practice. I started working at the age of 16 & I am still there to this day. 
Hmm, what else can I remember about those years that could be relevant to the rest of my story? After all, I had heartbreaks like every other teenage girl. I had friends who became enemies. There wasn't much about my school years that wasn't "normal" to an extent...except for one thing. And that one thing is very important to a major part of my life & my story. But I believe I will save that for next time. 


I know, I know. I'm mean. Have to keep yall interested & coming back...

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I apologize if I seemed to just ramble for much of this. Unfortunately these years weren't exactly exciting in the grand scheme of my life story. I wasn't overly popular but I wasn't really bullied either. I was basically invisible. Sure, I had times were I was picked on but who didn't? I'm sure it was a major part of who I was then, but honestly, it's what I have endured wishing the last 10-12 years that have really changed me. Truly, these years were my most "normal". You will all understand soon enough what I mean. 

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Today Is National ? Day
Sunday, September 13, 2015

Today Is:

National Peanut Day
National Kids Take Over The Kitchen Day

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Celebrity Birthdays
September 13th

Ben Savage 35
Tyler Perry 46
Robby Kay 20
Zoey Burger 16
Michelle Duggar 49
Swizz Beatz 37
Brizzy Voices 24
A. J. McCarron 25  *Roll Tide*
Fiona Apple 38
Alex Cubis 24
Angelina Love 34
Stella McCartney 44
Mitch Holleman 21
Aisha Dee 22
Jeff Ross 50


Happy Birthday to: Fashion designer Stella McCartney (1971) One Direction star Niall Horan (1993) Actor Ben Savage (1980) Singer Fiona Apple (1977) Rapper Keith Murray (1974) Comedian Jeffrey Ross (1965) Megadeth singer/guitarist Dave Mustaine (1961) Actress Jean Smart (1951) Read more at: http://tr.im/KXp0c
Fashion designer Stella McCartney (1971) One Direction star Niall Horan (1993) Actor Ben Savage (1980) Singer Fiona Apple (1977) Rapper Keith Murray (1974) Comedian Jeffrey Ross (1965) Megadeth singer/guitarist Dave Mustaine (1961) Actress Jean Smart (1951) Read more at: http://tr.im/KXp0c
Fashion designer Stella McCartney (1971) One Direction star Niall Horan (1993) Actor Ben Savage (1980) Singer Fiona Apple (1977) Rapper Keith Murray (1974) Comedian Jeffrey Ross (1965) Megadeth singer/guitarist Dave Mustaine (1961) Actress Jean Smart (1951) Read more at: http://tr.im/KXp0c

Saturday, September 12, 2015

Melissa Epling: Her Story Continues (Part II); Today is ? Day; Celebrity Birthdays For September 12th


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Melissa Epling:
Her Story Continues


     Melissa Epling continues her story. It's from her heart. Hear it beat.



I'm going to try & start from the beginning as best I can. Basically, my childhood was (from what I can remember) amazing! I had family that loves me. My last year before starting school, I remember going for walks in the woods behind the house with dad, learning how to track deer & other animals. When I started school, it was what one would consider normal. I had friends, I seemed to fit in, I got good grades, the usual. 

Then we moved from the country life I had known & loved to the city. It wasn't bad. My sister & I quickly made friends of the boys in the townhouse next door. The oldest even later became one of my favorite men; my brother in law, my "homie". So as not to move me away my last year, I commuted to school. As far as the school knew, I lived with Granny & Papa at the lake. After all, there were many days that Papa would come & pick me up. Then, they moved too. That meant I would be leaving all of my friends behind. We were all going off to middle school...in different counties. 


Middle school didn't seem so scary. Sure, I basically knew no one. But I loved band. And I was good at it! I easily stayed first chair flute. I knew music! I got music! I loved it! I had seen how much fun my sister had had the year before learning to play clarinet & I had to be a part of it. Papa even bought me my own flute so I didn't have to rent one. (Yes, to this day, I still have it. I always will) 


Little did any of us know that he would never even get to watch me play. He went into the hospital just a day or so before my first concert (December 18, 1996 I believe). He was to have surgery. But it was ok. My papa was going to get better & be at every other concert I would ever play. Little did I know. The day after Christmas I was finally able to go see him in the hospital. Apparently I was too young to be allowed in the ICU. What did I know? I was 11. All I knew was that those people wouldn't let a little girl be with her sick papa. I remember taking him cookies that day. I'm pretty sure they were sugar cookies with some Christmas something in the middle. Reindeer maybe? 


As excited as I was to see him, I was a kid & it was basically still Christmas to me. The last thing place I wanted to be was at the hospital. If only I had known. Just over 2 weeks later, on Friday Jan 10th, 3 days before my birthday, my papa became my guardian angel. I still remember that morning like it was just 4 hrs ago. I can still remember waking up to the knock on the door. It was around 5:30am. I don't remember why, but Sarah was in bed with me. (That tended to happen when it was really cold. After all, I was the one with the full size bed while she had the twin. Guess that's part of being the "baby" sister) I remember hearing dad go down the stairs. I remember the hushed voices. Then I remember hearing someone cry. I think it was mom & maybe granny. 


I heard dad make his way slowly up the steps toward my room. Since I was already awake, when he got to us, I just remember looking at him & saying "papa??" & then breaking down crying. 


Eventually, after falling back asleep (I assume), it was time to get up for school. For whatever reason, I was determined I was going. It would be ok. I'm not sure if by continuing on it wouldn't be real. I don't know. I just know that while I was set on it, mom & dad won out. I didn't go to school. Instead, I made the drive to Christiansburg with my family. I remember sitting in this room with Sarah & our cousins while our parents made all the arrangements. Apparently, they tried to convince my granny to have his funeral that Monday (the 13th) & she refused. She told them there was no way she was going to do that to me on my birthday. 


So, for the next 2 days, we made the hour long trip back & forth. Sunday at church, there was a beautiful lesson on the prodigal son that our preacher worked into talking about my papa's life. I don't remember it. But I remember seeing a tape of it where it was recorded & granny had a copy. Then it was time to make that trip again. Time to go back to that place. That awful funeral home. (To this day, I have terrible feelings when I am in Cburg & drive past that place) For the next however many hours, I cried. Later I was told that my other grandma (dad's mom) wanted so badly to just hold me while I bawled my eyes out. I wonder to this day how so many tears could have come out of such a little girl. But it wasn't over. We still had to drive another 30+ mins to the family cemetery in Snowville (which was an accurate name that day). We had to park at the bottom on the hill on the side of the back country road & hike up the snowy icy hillside. And again, I cried. A part of my heart was lowered into the ground that day. I go there & visit often. Some people might think it's morbid but I find peace there. On the top of that hill, overlooking the rolling countryside. I go & just sit there with my papa & speak to him in only a language meant for us. I tell him through my thoughts & memories how life is going. I ask him to continue to guard me. I pray to him to give me some of the strength he had in his life. Going to visit him grounds me. 


Back to the story...


The next day was my 12th birthday. I didn't go to school. The weekend had taken an emotional toll on me. I don't remember much of the next weeks or months or whatever but I do remember having a test soon after returning to school. History maybe? Clearly there was no way I was prepared but I was required to take it anyway. That was the first time this straight A student got a D. 




I think this is a good place for me to leave yall for now. I have typed myself out. Wishing you all peace until next time 


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Today Is National ? Day

Today is Saturday, September 12, 2015. What does our nation (?) recognize today as?

Today is:

National Video Games Day
National Chocolate Milkshake Day
National Day of Encouragement

Tomorrow, September 13 is:

National Peanut Day
National Kids Take Over The Kitchen Day

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Celebrity Birthdays For September 12th

Shannon Chandler, born September 12, 1986
Emmy Rossum, born September 12, 1986
Ben McKenzie, born September 12, 1978
Sasha Heymans, born September 12, 1978
Paul Walker, born September 12, 1973
Ki-Jana Carter, born September 12, 1973
Pamela Parker, born September 12, 1970
Brian Herman, born September 12, 1970
Larry Lalonde, born September 12, 1968
Mylene Farmer, born September 12, 1961
Dany Leyder, born September 12, 1960
Rachel Ward, born September 12, 1957
Leslie Cheung, born September 12, 1956
Ricky Rudd, born September 12, 1956
Nina Blackwood, born September 12, 1955
Peter Scolari, born September 12, 1954
Neal Peart, born September 12, 1952
Peter Scolari, born September 12, 1954
Neal Peart, born September 12, 1952
Barry White, born September 12, 1944
Maria Muldaur, born September 12, 1943
Jay-Jay Solari, born September 12, 1943
Patrick Mower, born September 12, 1940
Linda Gray, born September 12, 1940
Daniela Rocca, born September 12, 1937
George Jones, born September 12, 1931
Ian Holm, born September 12, 1931
Helen Carter, born September 12, 1927
Erni Arneson, born September 12, 1917
Hans Suyin, born September 12, 1917
Kikuko Hashimoto, born September 12, 1916
Ed Binns, born September 12, 1916
Billy Daniels, born September 12, 1915
Paul Marion, born September 12, 1915
Desmond Llewelyn, born September 12, 1914
Jesse Owens, born September 12, 1913
Shep Fields, born September 12, 1910
Annie Leenders, born September 12, 1909
Chili Bouchier, born September 12, 1909
Phyllis Clare, born September 12, 1908
Jr., Andy Rice, born September 12, 1905
Boris Arapov, born September 12, 1905
Nora Lane, born September 12, 1905
Jose Santugini, born September 12, 1903
Lenita Stengel, born September 12, 1901
Ben Blue, born September 12, 1901
Alfred A. Knopf, born September 12, 1892
Maurice Chevalier, born September 12, 1888


Friday, September 11, 2015

Melissa Epling Tells Her Story; Celebrity Birthdays; Today Is National ? Day


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     I want to share a story with you. Not mine. A friend. Melissa is a very sweet lady. She's been through a lot. Of course we all have, but "things" can be complicated from one person to the next for a number of reasons. I won't say any more than that.

     This series will continue over the next several days. Some posts will be longer than others but Melissa's story requires being told the way it flows for her.


Melissa Epling Tells Her Story
Part I



Well here goes nothin...

I've decided to tell my story. It is going to take a while to go back & get caught up to now but I'm going to do my best. I will warn y'all; it's not the easiest story to tell or probably to even hear, but if it helps even one person, I'm game. 

I guess for now I'll just start by saying hi. For those who don't know me personally, my name is Melissa, or Mel, or even Aunt Bob. This year I turned 30 and then my life turned upside down. I have been diagnosed with major depressive disorder. Am I ashamed of it? No. Why? Because it is a disease! Let me say that again for those stubborn people. It. Is. A. Disease! I didn't ask for this. I didn't do anything any different than anyone else I know to "catch" this. It just happened. It doesn't make me any less of a person than anyone else. Hell, if anything I'm more than most because I'm stronger than most because of what I deal with every day. I'll get into this more later. 

I just wanted to say welcome & hold on tight because I have lived one hell of a ride so far. 


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Celebrity Birthdays
September 11th


J.C. Caylen 23
Harry Connick, Jr. 48
Ludacris 38
Teraji Henson 45
SoMo 28
Ed Reed 37 
Jennifer Hudson 33
Andrew Luck 25
Emily Rossum 28
Nick Hall 18
Ryan Potter 19

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Today Is National ? Day

     So, what is today in our nation? Each day has a national designation. How about today, September 11, 2015?

Today is...

National Patriot Day
National Day of Service
National Day of Remembrance
National Stand Up To Cancer Day
National Hot Cross Bun Day
National Make Your Bed Day

Thursday, August 27, 2015

StarKist May Owe You Some Money; Famous Birthdays In History For August 27th

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StarKist May Owe You Some Money

Photo Credit: Delish.com

-----Story Credit: Delish.com

     Thanks to a recently settled lawsuit, you can now have your tuna sandwich and eat it, too.
   
     Consumerist reports that a class action lawsuit against Starkist might put some extra money in your pocket, or tuna cans in your pantry.

     A consumer sued Starkist claiming that the company under-filled its five-ounce cans of tuna, which is against state and federal law. Starkist denies the claim and insists it did nothing wrong, but agreed to settle with the plaintiff, and that means you win in the end.

     If you bought five-ounce cans of chunk light tuna in water or oil, or solid white tuna in water or oil, between February 19, 2009 and October 31, 2014, you might be eligible for $25 or $50 in vouchers for Starkist products. Overall, Starkist will pay up to $8 million in cash and $4 million in vouchers, so your full payout might be less if too many people sign up.

     Head to the lawsuit's website, TunaLawsuit.com, and either fill out a form or request to be excluded from the class action suit. You don't have to show proof of purchase, but you do have to say on penalty of perjury if you purchased an affected product.

     The deadline is November 20, and if you do nothing, you get nothing. So cash in if you can, because after a summer that saw a salmonella outbreak and tuna mislabeled, we could use some good news on the fish front.

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Famous Birthdays In History For August 27th


George Wilhelm Friedrich Hegel 1770

Hannibal Hamlin 1809 - 15th Vice President of the United States under President Abraham Lincoln, first Republican Vice President

Margaret Hungerford 1850 - Author ("Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder")

Charles Dawes 1865 - 30th U.S. Vice President under President Calvin Coolidge.

Theodore Dreiser 1871 - Novelist, journalist

Charles Rolls 1877 - Motoring and aviation pioneer, co-founder of Rolls-Royce car manufacturing company

Lyndon B. Johnson (LBJ) 1908 - 36th President of the United States

Agnes Gonxha Bojaxhiu 1910 - Known as Mother Theresa

Martha Raye (Margaret Teresa Yvonne Reed) 1916 - Comedienne, actress ("McMillan and Wife," "Airport ’79")

Carter Stanley 1925 - Musician (Stanley Brothers)

Jimmy 'Cajun' Newman 1927 - Singer

Mangosuthu Gatsha Buthelezi 1928 - Chief Minister of KwaZulo, South Africa

Ira Levin 1929 - Writer ("Rosemary's Baby," "The Stepford Wives")

J.D. Crowe (James Dee Crowe) 1937 - Banjo player, bluegrass band leader

Tommy Sands 1937 - Singer

Daryl Dragon 1942 - Musician (The Captain and Tennille)

Tuesday Weld (Susan Kerr) 1943 - Actress

Tim Bogert 1944 - Musician (Vanilla Fudge)

Marianne Sagebrecht 1945 - Actress ("The War of the Roses")

Barbara Bach 1947 - Actress ("Caveman")

Jeff Cook 1949 - Musician (Alabama)

Buddy Bell (David Gus Bell) 1951 - Baseball player

Paul "Pee-wee Herman" Reubens 1952 - Actor ("Pee Wee's Playhouse")

Alex Lifeson 1953 - Musician (Rush)

Diana Scarwid 1955 - Actress ("Inside Moves")

Glen Matlock 1956 - Musician (Sex Pistols)

Dean Devlin 1962 - Actor, screenwriter

Mike Johnson 1965 - Musician (Dinosaur Jr.)

Bobo 1968 - Musician (Cypres Hill)

Tony Kanal 1970 - Musician (No Doubt)

Sarah Chalke 1976 - Actress ("Roseanne")

Jon Siebels 1979 - Musician (Eve 6)

Wednesday, August 26, 2015

Fear The Walking Dead Breaks Ratings Record For Cable; Celebrity Birthdays

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Fear The Walking Dead Breaks Ratings Record For Cable


     The Monday night premier of AMC's Fear The Walking Dead broke the cable ratings record with a whopping 10.1 million live/same day viewers. Of course, most will tell you that because of the success of the original The Walking Dead on AMC, the new series was able to reach those numbers.

     AMC can now boast three of the top five cable television series premieres of all time...Fear The Walking Dead, Better Call Saul and The Walking Dead. A lead-in show, The Talking Dead, offered a preview of Season 6 for The Walking Dead and drew 4.2 million viewers to help kick-start the new series.

     A first-season run of six shows is being offered for Fear The Walking Dead. A full compliment of 15 episodes is scheduled for season two.

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Celebrity Birthdays

Chris Pine, 35
Keke Palmer, 22
Macaulay Culkin, 35
Melissa McCarthy, 45
Thalia, 44
David Price, 30
Craig Owens, 31
Amanda Schull, 37


Last night's special 90-minute series premiere of Fear the Walking Dead made television history, delivering 10.1 million live/same day viewers and becoming the #1 series premiere in cable television history for total viewers and all key demos. The episode delivered 6.3 million adults 18-49. In that coveted demographic, AMC now is home to three of the top five cable series premieres of all time in live/same day viewing - Fear the Walking Dead at #1 (2015), Better Call Saul at #2 (2015) and The Walking Dead at #5 (2010) - a remarkable accomplishment so far into the post-DVR era. A Talking Dead Season 6 Preview Special that preceded the Fear premiere last night delivered 4.2 million viewers, and 2.5 million adults 18-49. Here's what Charlie Collier, president of AMC and SundanceTV, had to say in a statement about the record-breaking ratings. Read more: http://movieweb.com/fear-walking-dead-premiere-ratings-record/#ixzz3jv3p90Jz Read more at: http://tr.im/KXqsg
Last night's special 90-minute series premiere of Fear the Walking Dead made television history, delivering 10.1 million live/same day viewers and becoming the #1 series premiere in cable television history for total viewers and all key demos. The episode delivered 6.3 million adults 18-49. In that coveted demographic, AMC now is home to three of the top five cable series premieres of all time in live/same day viewing - Fear the Walking Dead at #1 (2015), Better Call Saul at #2 (2015) and The Walking Dead at #5 (2010) - a remarkable accomplishment so far into the post-DVR era. A Talking Dead Season 6 Preview Special that preceded the Fear premiere last night delivered 4.2 million viewers, and 2.5 million adults 18-49. Here's what Charlie Collier, president of AMC and SundanceTV, had to say in a statement about the record-breaking ratings. Read more: http://movieweb.com/fear-walking-dead-premiere-ratings-record/#ixzz3jv3p90Jz Read more at: http://tr.im/KXqsg
Last night's special 90-minute series premiere of Fear the Walking Dead made television history, delivering 10.1 million live/same day viewers and becoming the #1 series premiere in cable television history for total viewers and all key demos. The episode delivered 6.3 million adults 18-49. In that coveted demographic, AMC now is home to three of the top five cable series premieres of all time in live/same day viewing - Fear the Walking Dead at #1 (2015), Better Call Saul at #2 (2015) and The Walking Dead at #5 (2010) - a remarkable accomplishment so far into the post-DVR era. A Talking Dead Season 6 Preview Special that preceded the Fear premiere last night delivered 4.2 million viewers, and 2.5 million adults 18-49. Here's what Charlie Collier, president of AMC and SundanceTV, had to say in a statement about the record-breaking ratings. "Thank you and congratulations to Robert Kirkman, Dave Erickson, the brilliant executive producers and the entire cast and crew of Fear the Walking Dead. It is increasingly difficult to evaluate a show's success on night one. However, we are releasing these live/same day ratings because Fear the Walking Dead delivered record-breaking numbers that are all the more special in this era of time-shifted viewing and audience fragmentation. To have a companion series to the #1 show on television driving communal, urgent viewing, social activity and pop cultural relevance of this magnitude is truly differentiating. Of course none of it is possible without the fans, whose passion leads to these remarkable results." The series premiere of Fear the Walking Dead earned a 5.0 national rating with 10.1 million viewers. In the Adults 18-49 demographic, the zombie series earned a 4.9 national rating with 6.3 million, along with a 5.3 national rating and 6.3 million in the Adults 25-54 demographic. The Talking Dead preview special scored a 2.2 national rating with 4.2 million viewers. It also earned a 1.9 national rating with 2.5 million Adults 18-49, and a 2.2 national rating with 2.6 million Adults 25-54. The first season of Fear the Walking Dead will run for six episodes this fall. The show will return for a second season of 15 episodes next year. The Fear the Walking Dead Season 1 finale will air on Sunday, October 4 at 9 PM ET, followed by a special episode of Talking Dead at 10:10 PM ET, hosted by Talking Dead Season 4. One week after the Fear the Walking Dead season finale, The Walking Dead will return with its Season 6 premiere on Sunday, October 11 at 9 PM ET, followed by Talking Dead. What did you think of the series premiere episode of Fear the Walking Dead last night? Let us know what you think, and stay tuned for more on both Fear the Walking Dead and The Walking Dead. Share (1.2k)Tweet (18)Share (3)Comments (1)Email Sources:AMC Tags:Fear the Walking DeadThe Walking Dead Best of the Web 9 Actors Who Were Totally Repulsed By Their Co-Stars 5 Brilliant Fan Theories That Will Change Things For You 8 Stupid Things In 'Game Of Thrones' That Everyone Just Ignores 8 Acting Legends We Don't Love Anymore 8 Stars Who Backed Out of Enormous Roles 9 Stupid Things in 'Fantastic Four' That Make No Sense 1 comments Want to join the discussion? balanorange • 1 day ago That main kid is rad. He's got a big career ahead... reply Read more: http://movieweb.com/fear-walking-dead-premiere-ratings-record/#ixzz3jv3RQcmw Read more at: http://tr.im/KXqsg